The couples divorcing oftentimes are not even in the same room. It’s really up to the mediator oftentimes as to what he or she thinks about having the couple in the same room and if it is going to be most advantageous to getting the case resolved. What the mediator will do is they’ll be familiar with the issues that are involved and they’ll be able to talk to both people to try to reason with them to try to come up with an agreement. The mediator is going to know what the risks are to both people. For example, one couple may need a mediator because it might be an alimony award to the other person. It could be that there are risks to child custody.
Now, if they can’t come to an agreement, then at that point, the case just goes on as it usually would. The people will go in front of the judge at that point, if there’s no agreement, the judge will make a decision. Not every instance says mediation is appropriate. It’s important for the couple divorcing to be close or could be a waste of time.
If there’s a possibility that the people can reach an agreement, then that’s something totally different. It’s maybe going to be worth it. The mediator will try to come up with an agreement on all of the issues that are going to be involved in a divorce. It could be child custody, child support, alimony and it could be property. It’s important to realize that even if there is an agreement, it still has to be approved by the judge. However, most judges will go along with an agreement that the people who were involved in a divorce come to.